Monday, October 16, 2006
kidney notes managed to put me to sleep once again. ugh! i swear i havent finish reading it ONCE. oh my goodness. i need 3 gurus to supervise me, seriously. bio guru, maths guru and chinese guru. okay make it 4, GP guru as well.
i came across this on someone's blog and i thought it's quite insightful.
do we help others out because we really gave a thought about how they'll feel after receiving help, or do we help others out because we are just being selfish because we don't want to see them in their sorry state?
think about it.
before you start helping people again, think of it from the others' point of view, put yourselves in their shoes and helping won't genuinely be a means of yours to get that warm and fuzzy feeling inside. well i'm not saying that it's wrong to feel warm and fuzzy. but that feeling's really what YOU get when u help others out.
help, so that your friends will be good. help, so that THEY feel good.
:)
Y12:29 PM
